Want My Ex Back

I’ve been going through some relationship issues and I’ve been getting different relationship/self-help books out of the library. Most of the time, I feel like crap after reading them, because the author tells me I’m doing everything wrong in my life or relationship.

But, I’m pretty confident with the person I am and the way I’m choosing to handle things. I’m just wondering if anyone else has had experiences with these type of books. What’s your opinion on them?

It seems like most of the books are negative and tell you what to do, rather than guide you to make your own decision and be your own adult person.
To clarify, I thought that a good book would be able to reinforce the way I choose to do things, I thought they would be positive, even spiritual and have a lot of guidance.

But, they were awful, negative! I started reading more stuff on spiritually instead.
I’ve stop reading them.

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I have good self esteem when i am single but once i am in a relationship my self-esteem diminishes. Why? How do i keep my good self esteem while in a relationship.

Also: The guys i have been with done nothing but treated me right and complimented. And i love all that stuff. It is great at the beginning but then i feel like i can’t measure up to it.

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Men are more simple and transparent, women are more complex and less transparent. Sure, sometimes men do dumb stuff and are a little more selfish. But even the most thoughtful, unselfish man will still probably have to tolerate ludicrous accusations from his wife that he wouldn’t put on her, on occasion. It’s assumed that the woman is thoughtful and maintaining her end of the relationship, because that comes so much more naturally to women than men.
Has anyone else noticed this (probably unintended, but unavoidable) message in relationship self-help books?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and clearly don’t know what the hell we are doing in our relationship, both of us are from broken homes, neither of us seeing a direct example of a healthy relationship, and so whenever we ave issues or problems that arise, neither of us can communicate with each other, well, not without the silent treatment or yelling, and so of course nothing ever gets solved. We love each other very much but could use some help before we end up killing each other (lol there’s no physical abuse, its just a joke)
Anyway, someone borrowed me a copy of "women are from mars, men are from venus" and i flipped through it and could see how it could help us greatly, IF we both activly persue it. I want to read this book with him, so we can both identify problems and learn how to relate to one another better, but i don’t know how to ask him, i’m afriad he’ll think i am critisising him or whatever, so can anyone please help me figure out a way to ask him,thx
I know some might say if the relationship is that bad we should split up, and i agree if things stay the way they are, but i can’t help feeling like it deserves a fair shot with this book to make things better, and if it doesn’t work then maybe the relationship should end, but i really want to try with this or any other suggestions you may have before "throwing in the towel" so to speak
LMAO, i just realized i got that backwards, men are from mars, women are from venus lol

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I feel the need of talking to a woman at my age about my relationship problem. Is there a chat room for this?
Preferably somewhere I can find adults. I’m 25.

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