How to Win Back Your Ex
How to Win Back Your Ex When You’re Suffering From The Pain Of A Break Up
Suffering from the pain of a break up can be the worst sort of pain a person goes through in their life. Here are a few guidelines to follow on how to win back your ex.
First of all, you do not want to chase your ex. This will only push him or her away. Your ex probably needs a little space to think about things. Often the person with a little time will begin to regret their decision if they are not pressured. They need to come to this realization on their own.
Do not call, text or email them for at least a weeks time. And it is EXTREMELY important that you do NOT beg them to come back to you. This will cause your ex to lose respect for you. It is very important at this crucial time that you take a step back and wait. But do not wait ideally. Try to keep yourself occupied with other things. This would be a good time to do some of the things you have not had time to do. I also suggest that you catch up on friends that you have not had time to keep in contact with or very close friends that will support you in your time of need. Family is also very important. They will help you to get through this.
After a couple of weeks have gone by it is now OK to contact your ex but keep it very casual. This is a very subtle and important step. Send an email, something casual like “how are you doing?” Do not over do it. You want your ex to think that you are fine. Be strong.
If the situation that caused the break up was a minor one there is absolutely a good chance that you can win back your ex. But you must not chase him or her. Your ex needs a little time to think about the situation. However, if a month or so has passed and you are still not back together it is time to take the second step.
Enough time has gone by that youre ex may have moved on. It is now time to really learn how to win back your ex.
This is a very delicate situation and your activity in winning your ex back must be balanced. This is where the power comes from. You do not want to crowd your ex. Do not stalk him. If you still have mutual friends it is ok to show up from time to time. But it is VERY important that all your attention is not directed towards your ex. You must appear as if you have moved on as well. The balance of this delicate situation is that you want to give your ex a small part of your attention but be casual about it. Remember the person your ex fell in love with in the first place. Be that person.
As time goes on it is ok to contact your ex as a friend, a caring friend. For example, always remember thier birthday. Send a casual card or gift to let them know that you still care about them.
After time has gone by it is ok to date other people, but do not sleep with anyone yet. If you do your ex will consder this the final sign that the relationship is truely over. So be faithful to your love even through you have broken up.
There are many other steps you can take to win your ex back. T’Dubs wrote an excellent ebook on just how to do this. It worked very well for me. I followed his advice. It was very sound advice and I am so thinkful that I found it. It worked for me and it may work for you as well.
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